Men's Groups for Sexual Addiction Recovery:

Phase I Group:

Topics covered:
  • How sexual addiction makes life unmanageable
  • Cycles of addiction
  • Healthy self care
  • Relapse prevention
  • Family or origin and roles learned
  • Healthy masculinity

Sexual addiction is essentially an intimacy disorder that results in cycles of avoidance, acting out, and deep shame. This community of men balances grace with
accountability and is a forum for learning how to develop healthy relationships.

This group available:

  • Mondays, 5-6:30 p.m., weekly (Community group until 7:15 p.m.)
  • Wednesdays 12:15-1:20 p.m., weekly. (Community group meets every other Tuesday for breakfast.)
  • Thursdays 6:15-7:45 p.m., weekly. (Community group until 8:30 p.m.)

These groups require a 3-month commitment and are ongoing. The cost is $45 a week.

Phase 2 Group
This group is for men who have completed the Phase 1 Sexual Addiction Recovery Group. This group leads deeper into the work of recovery. Where Phase 1
helps men overcome the impulses to act out, Phase 2 helps them understand the sources of those triggers. Where Phase 1 helps men understand the messages
sent to them by their families of origin, Phase 2 involves an in-depth study of:

  • Ones role in their family of origin
  • The family history of addiction and dysfunction
  • The emotional climate of the family of origin
  • Ones parents’ wounds and coping strategies
  • The losses and traumas on ones life

There is also a strong experiential component to the work of Phase 2. Therefore, you not only study one's family and origin but also connect that with the deeper
emotional work of grieving, healing, and growing.

But Phase 2 isn’t all about understanding and healing the hurts of the past. It is also about doing the deeper work of living fully into one's future. This involves
taking a deeper look at one's work world, one's finances, one's care of body, and one's relational world and then embarking on new ways of growing into the
fullness of one's life as a man.


Women's Groups for Partners of Sex Addictions

Topics covered:

  • Causes of sexual addiction
  • Sexual codependency
  • Treatment plan for sex addiction
  • Tendencies of partners of sex addicts
  • Boundaries with partners
  • Support systems for partners
  • Recovery from codependency
  • Intimacy, vulnerability and trust

Women dealing with sexual codependency often feel isolated because the issues are so difficult to discuss. A central component of the group is to develop your
own intimacy skills through developing stronger relationships within the group.

Mondays, 10-11:50 a.m., weekly

Cost is $45 per person per session (Community group time is required outside of group.)


Couples' Groups

These two groups are for couples in recovery from sexual addiction and co-dependency. These groups are designed to be a safe place to express feelings, gain
healing, learn skills and build trust and intimacy.

Cost is $90 per couple per session.

Group 1: Foundation Group
  • Sexual addiction and sexual codependency
  • Working through the pain of betrayal and lies
  • Rebuilding trust
  • Healthy boundaries
  • Accountability vs. nagging
  • Remembering the treasures of your relationship

Group 2: Advanced Group
  • Identifying patterns of "hiding"
  • How family-of-origin issues affect the marriage
  • "Healthy hiding"
  • Deepening intimacy
  • Enriching the sexual relationship
  • Supporting your partner's "dreams"

(These groups are offered on an as-needed basis.)
Groups offered at the Intimacy Center
We offer two phases of men's groups, groups for female partners of sex addicts, and groups for couples. More specific information is available below.

These groups offer a place to break out of isolation and shame, and to learn and practice healthy intimacy skills of support and accountability. Designed to
complement 12-Step Group work (SAA, SA, CoSa, etc.) these groups are a safe place to learn about yourself and learn new skills. Each group also meets in a
"Community group," without the therapist, to provide additional support and deepen relationships. While we come from a Christian spiritual experience, the
groups are a safe place for each person to express their spiritual journey as it applies to his or her recovery.